I love that you explore this and from what I have recently become aware of, many men are lost when it comes to knowing how to flirt and court, or just stand next to you in the market and speak with proper diction. Over here in California anyway.
I wasn't on Substack 2 weeks when a fellow wanted to "befriend" me. When I told him I wasn't interested, that I'm eighty one & my life is just how I like it, he responded Even old people need friends.
I sent the whole exchange to my niece. She looked up his picture, and he's on four different sites with 4 different names. I let Substack know. He's not here anymore.
I also took my pic down and put a pic of my dog up and changed my Substack name.
I'm honestly not afraid of men anymore, but there are just enough creeps out there that one has to be on one's guard.
I appreciate the opportunity to tell this here as a forewarning to others. I also recognize that it isn't just women who are victims, but men can be seduced by purported females making nice with them.
Loved this. You’re the least creepy guy on here 😊
So true!
Not creepy. High EQ and awareness!
This!
I love that you explore this and from what I have recently become aware of, many men are lost when it comes to knowing how to flirt and court, or just stand next to you in the market and speak with proper diction. Over here in California anyway.
Thanks California and I appreciate that you've read my words.
Men, mostly, are clueless. That's why we get it wrong so ofen.
I will do better. Although I’m also clueless.
Most welcome Mr. Yorkshire, a pleasure to make your acquaintance.
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Thank you!
Thank you for this, Philip.
I wasn't on Substack 2 weeks when a fellow wanted to "befriend" me. When I told him I wasn't interested, that I'm eighty one & my life is just how I like it, he responded Even old people need friends.
I sent the whole exchange to my niece. She looked up his picture, and he's on four different sites with 4 different names. I let Substack know. He's not here anymore.
I also took my pic down and put a pic of my dog up and changed my Substack name.
I'm honestly not afraid of men anymore, but there are just enough creeps out there that one has to be on one's guard.
Thanks for reading. I’m sorry these things happened to you.
I appreciate the opportunity to tell this here as a forewarning to others. I also recognize that it isn't just women who are victims, but men can be seduced by purported females making nice with them.
That never happens to me but I can see how it might.
We will make the world better Pam.
Not creepy. Thanks for caring.